Are you struggling to find, meet and date the RIGHT kind of women? That's not surprising. And truth is... it's not your fault. For decades now, men have been subjected to all kinds of bad dating advice from the media, parents and well¬meaning friends. Some of that advice is just plain nonsense! Take the classic one... “just be yourself.” Here's why this is BAD advice...”
As you can see, this opener gives me the perfect opportunity to demonstrate my deeper understanding of their engage shops review , and thus set myself up as the expert. • Getáthemátoáuseátheiráimaginationátoápictureádesiredáresults. I call this the “What if...” frame. Get them to ask themselves, what IF they could have the results they really wanted. What would it be like? Picture it. Imagine it. Think about it. Wouldn't it be great? “Just think. How good would life be... if you could step out on a Saturday afternoon... maybe to your local shopping mall... ...and EASILY get yourself a hot date lined up for the same evening? What if you had the CONFIDENCE to just walk up to any woman you wanted to get to know... and have her telephone number within 5 minutes? I know... sounds too good to be true, right? Well... it's perfectly possible. Here's how. By the way, listen carefully... because what I'm about to share with you in the next few engage shops review is going to blow your mind.”
When you get them to imagine these things at this early stage, be aware that you'll probably trigger a “Yeah, right” mental response if the scenario you're describing is not in their current scope of reality, the range of what they feel is presently achievable for them. “What?áMe? Haveátheáconfidenceátoáapproacháaáwomaná andágetáherátelephone number...alláiná5áminutes?áYeah,áright.” So you need to recognize this likely response right away. Acknowledge it, and deal with it. That's what I did in the example above. “I know... it sounds too good to be true, right?” And then I used that opportunity to tell them to pay attention and listen up. Next, I could choose to share with them some insights or a story, or whatever was next on my engage shops review. • Begináwitháaástory. Let's face it, stories can be fun to hear. I'll get into stories a couple of chapters from now, but you can also start your sales letter with an intriguing story – either a real one based on an experience, or a hypothetical situation. Make sure your prospect can relate to it.